Saturday, September 25, 2010

Improve your life and think BIG!

I believe that setting goal and aiming big can make you a successful one!

If you think you dont grow to the field you choose and been working off your arse for so long and you dont get any promotion better THINK! you might need to change your career and dream your own business.. start to use your time wisely learn a better management skills to succeed. Explore !!! dont unlock your ideas always aim high be creative.

Reduce stress and take control of your life.. STRESS is like a living hell! I've learned that you should not take problem seriously but think way not putting lotsa pressure in your self..  Problem can overcome naturally . The problem we encounter in life is a habit guaranteed to trigger stress and depression and anxiety . "Swich off to problems and try to divert your self in some other field of enjoyment that you can breath and relax. Live in amazing life, release those heavy baggage, let go and manifest anything you really like in life. Remove sticking blocks that hold you back.

Better embrace new relationships and strengthen existing one
You must know how to welcome people in your life and how to be accepted in society. Even good relationships tend to stagnate when routine sets in and most of all embrace your inner confidence.
Self embracing occurs when all of your emotions, life experience, and aspects of your personality are accepted. Take back judgement that you projected onto others and thus, your personal power increases. The deeper you accept your self, the greater you hold difference and accept others.

Enjoy Life!!  We cant get back the hands of time! Life is too short so Live life to the fullest and aim high!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Can you sTand with fake,liars,backstabbers,and 2 face people???

Yay!! can you stand with it living with Fake, LiaRs, bacKstabbers and 2 face peopLe???
Do you have a horrible experience of your own??

Oh well lets face it! We do meet a lot of people some are good  some are so mean and evil,  people whom you think you can trust but truth is they are the worst people you might encountered in your life . the fake. liars ,backstabbers and 2 faced people.. Since I've been down I realized those kind of people . " there is a saying: you will know who your friends are when your in your worst side of life" but not just friends.. who will tame you and laughed at you.. but the people surrounds you that knows you.

I'm very aware of them now!

People nice to you but when you turned around they are goin to say lots of worse thing ever about you!

How to catch them??

Just open your eyes and be observant..  if they do it to other and nice to other but when that person talk to you and say worst thing about that"other" then be aware of!
Some good people hear what they say towards you and tell you about it! (prove it!)

Dealing with them??

better just to stay away with them.. but if you dont have an option... just be aware of or  try to aviod and dnt say anything specially personal thing about your life. if its below the belt and you proven they say something off to you.. CONFRONT them! people like them are coward and can be scared off especially they know that you know what they are doing and for sure they are goin to deny but at least they are going to stop for awhile..

Now that your aware about it and cant get them out of your system specially if they are neighborhood or co-workers or some friend.. keep all conversation to a minimum of small talk. DOnt ever dare go down with their level and stab back. Avoid private time with them if you can, be cordial and polite but dnt get in with thier drama in life that always seems unfold with them.

   I thank the LORD for always there with me during my times of trouble he always guide me and lift me up. I know things happens for a reason.. It makes me more aware of things and people surround me.. and make me more smarter and stronger. 

                                                                             Laterz....... RHEN :)

Friday, September 17, 2010

Big TuMmy has gUts wearing 2 piece nYahaha!

Puerto Gallera Beach Resort
RoseGold Private resort in Batangas

I was just browsing through our pix and just seen this pictures of mine way back 2006 I was 8 months pregnant with my first child Aliyah :) 

People staring at me and smiling It's like only now they seen a pregnant women wearing 2 pc hahaha I guess everyones was saying "CUTE" **blush** 

Ooops I dunno how to rotate the pixs I'll just figure it laterz!!!


Takin care of my stuff .. what to put in my online store.. and still doin the design so that my hubby knows what to input in my website :)

still in progress working for it!! 

Monday, September 13, 2010

Jollibee or McDo ??

Uggg! Famous KiDs fOod cHain here in Philippines.. 
Where do you prefer Jollibee or Mc Do??

Me??? I'm sick and tired of this food harharhar but I cant do nothing about it if my kids wants us to eat Jollibee or McDO.. even my huBby is Mc Do Burger eater mOnsTer ohh geezz as if never get tired eating there food like there's no tomorrow.. yay! 

How about you??? 

Friday, September 10, 2010

sTaRting to LeArn cLoThing oNLinE sToRe..

Alright! alright! FASHION is my PASSION!!

I've been 18 years in Apparel fashion industries been working as a fashion designer for the local brands and has my garment sewing line business for more than 10 years..  I love creating stuff  and what I learned in design is I want it to share with you..
So, I decided to learn about online selling stuff on websites :)

I still dunno how to do it.. :P but I know Marshall will help me with this stuff and "some" of my friends.. and If you have any Ideas I am open for some suggestions.. Hopes it all works for me.. wish me Good luck guys...

I'm also goin to expand my clothing business to design accessories and corporate designs and give aways.. so If you are interested you can contact me through here or send me email at

cHeck out for my next post :)

Thursday, September 9, 2010

LeTs taLk about me.. :)

ALryt guys!! I graduated with Bachelors degree in Fine Arts major in Advertising Arts at University of the East  :)  During my collage days our business was bankrupt but my parents work so hard so that they can help me pursue my collage degree to the extent of borrowing money with high interest just to support me with my studies and same thing with me I need to work and live with my uncle so i get a free meal .. It's really so hard to work and study at same time.. but, as what my parents told us EDUCATION is our key to success.. and they are freakin' right !! After my graduation the next day I already got job.

my first job was a CARTOONIST.. we work on X-man, Ninja Turtles, Disney character etc..  I did it for just 3 months I dnt like the people plus I feel I'm not goin to improve myself in this field.. I'll be just a cartoonist artist for  rest of my life and if ever you get promoted .. its all just but a senior artist.. so, I resigned and find another one..

I tried to work in ADVERTISING company.. It's fun but I get tired location is so freaking far it's in Makati and I live in Bulacan plus I always need to work overtime. I bumped someone in a jeep where I commute and he seen my portfolio with me so he asked if I'm an Artist.. I told him yeah! so he gave me his number and told me to go to his office coz they are in need of a Fashion designer.

so I get hired! FASHION DESIGNER- Gutsby International Fashion Company :) I Love the people, the boss, and my new found group/friend.. who taught me about garments business and my boss Jerome even give me capital /a chance for me to have a small business..  I started with 6 sewing machines.. they give me /support me with sewing jobs and just deducted small amount of money in my collectibles till i finished paying my loan .. so cool diba!

Some issues get with Amy and Ronnie and it gets to the point that they need to resign so I was bump out dunno if I go with them or stay with the company which I worked for 5 years..  and I just decided to work with them.. as a team.. I didnt know that they have a plan for us... the next day they call me and told me that they have a financier  and we need to get ready coz we are goin to work in a new company..

and thats IFCI.. I was promoted as Assistant Merchandiser and designer..  and aside from that job during MWF after office hour from 6pm to 10pm  we work on a new brand BELLE ..  and TTH we work on BLUE CORNER .. kida busy dnt ya!! plus I have Kazby brand where I design every saturday and Sunday.. whuoaaa and submit design for graphic kiddie shirt design  at least 20 to 50 design a week .. whhoooo! I work almost everyday at IFCI but during afternoon of MWF I need to report at Clinton for design submission for their tops apparel .. we get a consultation fee  and we divide it as a group. .. AMY and Ronnie dnt work full time in IFCI they handling other brand during TTH ..the BLUE TAB..  I get tired and I learned that there's some issue between them with my boss so I tried to get OUT with my group I dnt want to involve with it.. and when Doddie learned about it he offer me to work at CLINTON so I submit resignation letter to my BOSS J.. she tried to talk to me and convinced me not to resign she rather prefer to get me rather than them but I have this "utang na loob" for Amy and ROnnie plus I already accepted Doddie offer .. plus the 2 guys is already upset/mad at me for moving out .. so I dnt want to add on some salt in thier wounded feeling towards me..  I think a million times about this.. I dnt want to be at thier shadow for the rest of my life and I want change...  I want to prove something for my self ..  and I guess I did the right choice.

I become a MERCHANDISER MNGR/ DESIGNER at Clinton.. everything works so fine..  I work and same-thing handling my own Business.. I just concentrate on the brand I handle plus concentrate my sewing business.. from 6 sewing machine goes up to 40 machines.. I have 3 networks  I supplied for known local brands like BARBIE SHIRTS, HOTWEELSHIRTS, ELLE, BLOWING BUBBLES, PAZZO, PADDOCK'S, TIARA, CRISSA.. and lot more  ..

Just crazy rumors gets into me.. as in crazy crazy crazy!! They told me that i do design in some other brand..  YES i GET some work from other brand but I DONT do design for them. geezzz!

    I dont do sidelines or making design for other brand anymore.. I just get sewing WORK for them for my sewing business I just supplied shirts for them but they are the one who supplied the design for me.
but RUMORS spreading and never stop.. and even get worst gezzz about me getting money from printers and they pay me 20,000 pesos a month OMG... they are only printers and even just offer services.. If they only think right.. anyways I just forget those presumption they throw for me as long my conscience is CLEAR!

       A tragic thing happens last 2009.. I lost a dear friend of mine.. MAVERICK he the one who help me a lot..  Because of his lost some of my P.O. 's from pazzo and extreme approval was get delayed ..  which cost me to get a finance credits which earns interest and thats a millions of pesos..  I thought delays of approval will took only a month.. geez but it takes  almost 8 months before designed was finally approve.. I get the P.O. in sometime February and finally approve in september..

SEPTEMBER typhoon Ondoy hit us ! the whole first floor of my house was drowned.. where some of my machines and my cutting table was located and lots of fabrics was exposed due for last quarter production .. PEAK season.. even my Nissan X-TRAIL was there at my carpark and got drowned.. :(

I was devastated..  dunno why it happened.. lots of question asked... but I know IT ALL HAPPENS FOR A REASON..  I know there's a reason behind this. God will not goin to give me this burden if I cnt carry the cross..

Marshall need to go back state so he can help me work on this thing.. I'm lot more better now ( I thought Im goin crazy  and cnt handle the problem anymore).. from 4 millions of pesos pay off its down now to hundreds of thousand.. little by little I know I can get over..  

I lost my capital.. I lost some of my sewers... I've lost my car.. I need to sell some of my machines so I can get money to pay off my sewers.. I should not stop .. I need to be strong.. I have my people who still there and need my company to support them and there family.. I still have "some" friends who help me when I'm down. Supplier who still trust me and give me a chance to move on... I'm 17 years in this business industry.. So I know I still can make it and get up and get back on my feet on the ground..

I know now who my truly friends are.. people laughing at me and happy watching my downfall I pity them.. maybe just Maybe they have this hidden feeling of jealousy and envy in their heart..

I will do all things so that I can get back on my feet.. I've been there and I know I still can make it up there! I have the guts and knowledge that typhoon did not take away from me..

If I need to work 10 company again I will do that just to get back on my feet anyways they were thinking I'm doin sidelines so .. BE IT!! at least if they talk about it this time its for real!!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

How bEauTifuL LifE is..

 Hmmm I was very upset of things goin on right now but come to think of it....We only live once. During the down days, if we choose to keep in our mind that we probably have more chances than others, more things to be thankful for than others, and more time to live on this Earth than others, Will be reminded that our life is indeed very precious.
I'm a special woman and I am here with a path to travel. There's many people still are grateful for me and I might not realize about that. Life needs me and that's because life has given me a path that only me can travel, and no one else will do.
Life is really short and instead of being burdened by the heavy "shoulds" and "could have beens", perhaps it's really time to have the courage to make more mistakes, be sillier, and travel lighter for the rest of your life.  I thank people those putting me down it find me courage to fight and be more tougher. and thought me how to wake up in the morning torn between a desire to improve the Life and enjoy Life..  Not a journey to grave...  

As what Dr. Seuss said.. "Don't cry because its over, smile because it happened." 

Anything gOes..

     Lots of things happening lately that I want to put in writings..  It's all about my observations and things happening bout LIFE .. etc

  Let me introduce my self .. Im RHen.   Just simply me.....A natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant,fair, always willing to Listen to varying viewpoints,and ready to see the other side of an issue.even i strongly disagree with someone,i will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences..I often avoid taking extreme or one sided stance on anything. I have a strorng desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships,and express a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship,and fairness. I want so much to please that ofteen supress my own intense or unpleasant feelings in order not to offend others. I am an adventurer in heart,who loves to take risk, to discover and explore new worlds,and to take the untried path rather thAn the safe, reliable one. I am independent soul, freedom-loving, and often restless. I love to travel, movement, change and meeting new people. Well the latest about me is i feel love and INLOVE... with Marshall and my 3 adorable kids.